How to get sympathy back

1. Acknowledge your feelings.

Since the girl already knows about your liking, it is better to show her that you are aware of the situation. This will help you avoid mutual awkwardness. Confess your feelings, but let the girl know that you do not insist on an immediate response.

You can say, "I know you can guess my liking for you. I really like you. But I will understand if you haven't figured out your feelings yet."

2. Stay yourself and try not to worry too much.

Even if the situation makes you shy, try to just be yourself. Don't pretend to be someone else to please a girl, otherwise she will quickly realize everything and you won't be able to build a friendly or romantic relationship.

If she feels uncomfortable in your presence, the girl just doesn't know how to behave in response to your liking.

You may be tempted to shun the girl for the first few days after she becomes aware of your affection, but it's best to act as if nothing has changed.

3. Smile to show your friendliness.

Smiling makes a person more attractive and happier. Smile in a friendly way at a girl during a conversation or when you meet her.

A smile will show that you are confident and not shy about your feelings for the girl.

4. Ask questions.

Don't give in to feelings of awkwardness and talk to a girl at recess, lunch, or after school. Ask her about her family, hobbies, and goals for the future. She will almost certainly ask questions back. This way you can get to know each other better.

For example, ask, "How do you like to spend your weekends?", - or, "Do you have pets?".

The questions will help you get to know the girl's interests and find common ground.

5. Listen and memorize the answers.

Be attentive when the girl answers your question and tells you about herself. It is important not only to show your attention with eye contact and a smile, but also to memorize small details of the conversation so that you can remember them later and impress the girl.

For example, if she named her favorite candies, you can treat the girl to those candies next time.

If a girl is anxious before a test paper or report, write her a caring message the morning of the event.

6. Maintain eye contact to strengthen the bond between you.

You don't have to assume as if you can't look at a girl often if she already knows you like her. Chances are, she'll be happy for the attention. Make eye contact during conversations and strive to get a girl's attention when you enter a room.

Hold your gaze for a few seconds if the girl looks at you too.

Don't hold eye contact for longer than 3-4 seconds or it will look weird.

7. Try to make the girl laugh and show your sense of humor.

Tell jokes and make funny remarks during the conversation. Laugh in response to the girl's funny comments so that she realizes that you will not be bored.

Make puns or share jokes and memes in posts.

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INNA DIDENKO

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